ADVICE

[markzxr400l3]

Sorry to hear it mate, live a little, dont do anything you'll regret (easy to say when youre not in it eh?)

How about this one?

Made huge mistake and got married very young (too young), had baby girl. Then I had a fling with wifes sister. I told wife, wife forgave me, couldnt get sister out of my head, ran off with sister. (btw felt bad - understatement - for ever about it, still do but hey, how much thinking do you do with your head when your young?)

Lived with sister for good few years and REALLY loved her. Had baby (lost at 4 months old to cot death), 4 months after sons death my best mate slept with wifes sister, I forgave wifes sister and best mate cause I'm still in bits about baby. had another son but broke up eventually with wifes sister. Best mate comes sniffing around till I had enough and 'harmed him slightly and got in slight trouble with the feds'. Left whole sorry mess and tried to get on with life (minus kids I love).

Then hear best mate has now moved in with ex wife (remember her). And daughter now has his surname. Hear rumours of best mate not treating daughter right and REALLY harmed best mate, REALLY got into trouble with law.

All sorted now (as much as can be) but Fooked up or what?

Best advice... carry on, walk away, get on bike and thank fook there are no kids involved.

You know what... theres always regrets, it'll shape who you are and how you do things. Just think, if you dont experience pain, you cant really appreciate pleasure. Think of what you got out of it and take it with you.

My advice...if she's hot... DO HER SISTER just dont let any begger know about it LOL!!

Not sure I want to post this but on the basis that it might help that some people have hit bottom a little harder and come out the other side might let you know that there is hope yet. Doesnt make it hurt any less though I'll grant you.

Good luck...M

[RedexRobB]

Bloody hell, sounds like an episode of the jeremy kyle show

Complicated story and not one id ever wanna be in the middle of.

Do you think when your young? Yes, but not with the brains your given, its a little further south.......

[superman]

christ. i hope it all works out for you mate. its getting easyer for me at the moment but i have the odd day where im missing her and wondering what shes upto.. its a real pain to love someone who dont love you back..

[Marcie]

By heck, some thought provoking stuff in this...

Reet ive got the cure, here it goes:

Have a crash hit your head so hard that you loose your memory and from then on out are permanently happy and have no emotions. Tell you what if i could bottle the way i feel, id make billions!!!!!!

Wish i could rub some of this off on you lads who are feeling rock bottom.
Tell you what, if youve lost the love of your life, and you treated her the best way you could. Her loss at the end of the day. Harsh, yes... but you gotta be optimistic, you wont help anything by being unhappy. Get a smile on your face, be happy with what youve got no matter how minimal that might be

Marcie

[gasman]

is there anything you,ve really wanted to do or have a go at?
about 10 years ago i bought an accoustic guitar because when i was younger i always wanted to be able to play one but never had the time, so then had time on my hands so bought one. Once youve shelled out for it theres no running cost, membership fees etc just the time and effort that you put in.Beware though can get slightly addictive we now also have second accoustic guitar,electric guitar,keyboard,harmonica,banjo,ukelela ,drum kit and pair of marracaas(dont ask) can,t play most of them but sure does pass the time.